'Advice to Ladies'- Really?

Why do people feel it's okay to be rude to unmarried ladies in the name of giving 'advice'? And what's this balderdash about a woman working on favour so that when the man meets her, he will notice the favour in his life? Did I miss something in Proverbs 18:22? Why are people like this na? Shey favour has nothing to do with the man's actions? What happened to scriptures like Psalm 5:12, Proverbs 3:3-4, 8:34-35, 11:27, 12:2, 13:15, 14:9 and others? If you're not experiencing favour as a married man, YOU are more likely to be the problem than your wife! Young men, the woman you marry is NOT your automatic ticket to God's favour; you have your own part to play...